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Saturday, September 28, 2013

Mondo's Aphorisms (page #4)

Mondo's Aphorism (p.4)

The Objective Truth, not your subjective truth, makes one more Human.

The other's behavior is simply a counter-behavior to yours.

The other, as an acquaintance, friend, or lover, will, soon, settle into his comfortable ratio of inherited, cultural self to authentic, larger Self:  wait, seek, and accept the Truth of him.

The objective Truth, not one's subjective truth, is a carte blanche to one's authenticity, or larger Self.

When true Love is wanting in an intimate relationship, the other will consciously or subconsciously close many lines of communication, for fear of the Light out of his comfortable darkness.

When intoxicated with anger, one feels essentially naked, out of the protected comfort of one's body or Home.

Seek not to treat the Truth as if it were titanium body-piercing bullets for which one should, must wear a bullet-proof vest to guard against.

Goddess is not a man, and God is not a woman:  She is not a woman, and He is not a man:  She is, and He is neither, both, and beyond our Human conceptions, or imagination.

Die each night to your life's retrograde issues, and wake up each morning with a newly-fresh, wider perspective of them in your mind's imaginative eye.

Endeavor to never be impervious to the other's mischance.

Made impervious to intimacy, for fear of Love's misfortunes, many a man's heart will harden, wither away, and be unable to provide oxygen to the brain needed for rationale, or noble Humanity.

A relationship that is a respite for one's troubled soul is most dysfunctional.

If the only topic of conversation, one has with a friend is disparaging gossip about others, then the friend is one to lose to a Gossip Columnist,

The ego is the Soul's nemesis.

If the only topic of conversation one has with a friend is complaints about his life-negating issues, then the friend is one to lose to a good Therapist.

There are two types of love a Human Being might experience:  Objective and subjective.

One will usually emote subjective love, for it emanates from the ego, the cultural and inherited self.

Objective Love, one feels deeply, Soulfully, for It emanates from the Soul, the authentic, and larger Self.

Endeavor to never reduce your noble Humanity to race, but to transcend race.

All schisms betwixt Human Beings are superficial, and borrowed:  look to it, reflect, gain insights, overcome, and transcend it.

One lies, at times, out of fear of being lied to.

A man's feminine side is his better Angel.

An ungrateful heart will have a bountiful harvest waiting to be reaped, but instead will be complaining about the drought, the sterile soil.

You may have influence over, define, or redefine the major events experienced in life, as much as they will, undoubtedly, shape, reshape you as an individual, depending on the lense(s) used to do so progradely or retrogradely.

Life is a paradoxical simplicity.

Seek out ways to simplify your life, thus, softening your heart.

Your thoughts are automatic, unreflective, while reason is deliberately moving away from automatic thoughts, as in meditation, to find deeper meaning within introspection, reflections, and an inter-connection with all that is.

The Human world is a wonderful, noble one, if you accept full responsibility for your consequences, choices in life, and always know your place in the chain of Humanity, how we inter-are.

We are responsible for each other, even, in ways beyond the poet's fancy, and that is truly noble.

Always be the Commander in Chief of all your consequences.

When you sufficiently Love, respect Yourself, truly, it is impossible, then, to suffer the slings and arrows of unrequited love.

Pray to not develop an insatiable want, but perceived as need, by the cultural, inherited self for material goods, borne out of Existentialist angst.

Be not an enabler to those who conspire against themselves.

If you want apple juice, but get a lemon, accept it as bountiful harvest:  a paradoxical simplicity.

Real, true Love never requires one to sacrifice the Self for Her.

Let good, sound reasoning founded on principles, morals lead the way, followed by the heart.

Embracing your imperfection is the only antidote to guilt, shame, and blame.

It's not what happens to one in life, but the lense(s) one uses to view, interpret each experience.

The other, in an intimate relationship, is like a puzzle, but with patience, and some time seeking the truth of him, he will solve his own puzzle for your eyes, mind.

How could one ever know, if experience A had materialized, that it would have been better, worse, in the long run, than experience B that did happen?

Be totally present with each breath to reduce your level of stress, and enjoy the gift of life as a sentient Being.

Your strength may be your weakness, and your weakness may be your strength.

Acceptance frees the heart to live in the sunshine of the present.

A grateful heart nurtures, cultivates a peaceful Soul.

I am a doer, maker of consequences, choices.

If he does not respect your orgasms, he is emotionally detached, very like a gigolo.

No other Human Being can deceive you, without your complicity.

Mental illness, or brain disorders, is a Human issue:  let us, all, deal with it openly, without shame, stigmas, or/and guilt.

A good conversation is a beautiful, well-choreographed, intimate tango.

Greed intoxicates and makes one irrational, on the brink of madness.

A man, who shuns his feminine half of his brain, thus negates his mother, truly, and is, therefore, unbalanced.

One should not ask another traveler to slow down his journeying, for one needs to gain more skills, and experiences to get to the same, similar stage of life as the other.

We, each as an individual, will travel through the stages of life at our own, individual pace.

Expectations or being hubristic about how your future should materialize, one way or another, is a psychological prison of your creation.

My conscience scolded me, thus:  a pound of a woman's flesh is cheaper than a pound of widgets on the insidious, cultural, gradated market.

Ex-lovers do not create one's "baggages:"  they are created, for one makes the consequence of not travelling light.

Tactics should be used when dealing with a group, only,  not an individual Human Being, for tactics is of utilitarianism.

If your heart-space only expands when in receiving mode, you may be selfish.

A grateful heart always knows, accepts the mathematical difference of her strengths to weaknesses.

Good, humane ideas are the Soul's axis.

A well-developed, moral imagination is the healthy, well functioning heart of one's Soul.

A fertile, moral imagination is needed to move forward in life.

If you keep making withdrawals, only, from any relationship, soon your account will reflect a zero balance, then a negative, followed by the closing of said account.

It is a well-deserved honor to not be respected by the unwise, less-Human.

Seek to always remember, empathize with, delineate the individual Human Being from all systems, in general, for the Human Being is infinitely noble, while systems, themselves, may be corrupt.

The cultural, inherited self is always most antagonistic to Change, any hint of Her.

Never chase Happiness, for She is most swift, but make a Home for Her, and She will come to stay with you.

When you know, accept your weaknesses intimately, they become your strengths.

One who lives irresponsibly does not need a lover, but a codependent.

With a good deed everyday, soften your Heart to prepare, as an individual, internally, for the "beloved community."

Low- to no-fiber foods is a tactical, clever, grandmaster-chess-champion marketing move.

Learning dynamically or journeying toward becoming more Human is a noble aspiration.

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