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Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Mourning The Nights

Mourning The Nights

Soul of my soul,
My heart tears disharmoniously
In mourning of nights
When your body touches
My body to heavenly blisses.

My soul bemoans
Forebodes the heralds
Of morns that take
You away from my arms
Till our next tryst of souls.


Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Fab to Dav

Fab to Dav

Fab's eyes just bright
Enough to liven up my nights
Her lips just warm
Enough to warm up my heart
Her hands just soft
Enough to soften my edges
Her voice just harmonious
Enough to synch my soul
To the music of her Fab soul.

Friday, March 14, 2014

This Man's Suffrage

This Man's Suffrage

When I do get married, ladies, I need my wife to be my equal--period--, especially, as far as money is concerned; therefore, the woman, who I will ask to marry--she may also ask me, since she, a woman, is my equal--me, must have her degree of responsibility, respect for money in alignment with mine.

I will, of course, factor in the insidious, real-world issue of the discrepancy between the earned income of the sexes; for example, if, as a man, I benefited from the inherited set-up of patriarchy, and earned more than my wife, I would propose the following for us:  we spend an equal percentage of our net income on our SHARED, incurred bills. Thus,if my monthly net income were, let's say, $100.00, and she netted $50.00 monthly, and I were paying $75.00 towards our SHARED, incurred bills, I would, then, need her to pay 75% of her $50.00 monthly net income, which is $37.50.

Then, the discretionary incomes of $25.00 and $12.50 would be saved and spent, using the same mathematical method, equally.

I must also point out, that I believe that the belief, that a man must spend disproportionately more on SHARED, incurred bills, in an intimate relationship, is learned, like other gender roles, and those learned, insidious, totally man-made, under their patriarchal flags, like phallic symbols, beliefs, or gender roles perpetuate the discord, imbalance, superiority/inferiority complex between the sexes, and continue to create the deep spiritual malaise within our collective Soul.

Ladies, remember, one man's suffrage is every woman's suffrage, and need I say, the reverse holds true also, truly.

Goddess' speed to our collective Soul on Her journey to full transcendence of the sexes' unnatural, divisive issues!  Let Us reconcile with our Oneness, once again, and thus transcend our inherited gender complex.

With agape,
Mondo

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Self-negation Through The Other

Self-negation Through The Other


Preface:  You are always your "best" Self at every stage of your journey; you are never not your best being, although you may be less-Human to more-Human on that Humanity spectrum, but never not.  As one spiritual leader points out, "You are never not on the right track," meaning you may have taken some detours, but always on the "right" track journeying toward your authentic Self.

One negates the other, in an intimate relationship, when one is unable to fully appreciate, accept, love the other, for he/she is unable to fulfill one's needs, wants, and validate one's reasons, conscious or unconscious, for being in a close relationship.

But I am afraid that the reasons/excuses for which one stays in an unhealthy, "close" relationship are as valid, and real as the symptoms of a full-blown panic attack:  for society, one does not want to be on one's own, out of fear that one's perceived need for external validation by/through the other would be negated; the reenactment of one's less-than-perfect relationship with one's parents would come to an abrupt end, thus, another loss; one has not mourned the loss of one's less-than-perfect relationship with one's parents; the super-inhuman attraction, want, or need to outdo one's parents on either end of the relationship's spectrum--either one wants to better or worse one's parents' score cards--depending on one's level of self-loathing, or self-love on that spectrum.

Here's hoping you look for and find balance.

With agape,
Mondo